I'm the one to be told
at the very end
just get rid of the old
before you descend
I'm the tie on your neck
if you slice it apart
and the third in the group
rhyming is hard
I'm the first of the group
and I will be kind
Think of my age
and it's me who you'll find
Although mentioned last
Im the easiest of all
If you can not find me
start again after fall
This is my riddle
and you know the deal
Find out the answer -
What is it I feel?
Super secret solution ahead:
Spoiler: It is something you can feel and it has 4 letters. I'm sure you already knew that. Also it has nothing to do with religion of any kind.
I focused on playing with grammar and letters here. Sticking close to the words without interpreting may help.