Am I
Oxygen?
By myself I have many meanings
Oxygen can mean either the atom, ion, or molecule
Left alone, I am very agreeable
Oxygen ions and molecules are rarely bad
Three of us is bad news
O3, Ozone, is quite toxic and a harmful byproduct of chemical plants
With two of my next door neighbors I become a hero
H20 and either Nx0 or SxO, water and useful chemicals
I also can take off with same two neighbors
any of these come in gaseous forms in normal earthen temperatures
Some other neighbors really like me. I can make them bigger and powerful
Many other elements can oxidize, metals can make strong alloys in the right ratios