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>! black hole!

*You may make me but you cannot destroy me.*

>! People, can create black holes, but cannot destroy them. ( Look up the large hadron collider)


*You can see through anything with my help.*

>! Not really sure about this one...

*When I'm (really)big black, nobody and nothing can escape from me.*

>! Black holes are big and black. Nothing can escape them, not even light.

*I'm not used very frequently.*

>! People do not use black holes in their day-to-day lives.

*Sometimes, I make object unusable*

>! Anything which enters a black hole will be stretched to a great extent and will be rendered useless. ( this information is from one of vsause's videos on black holes)