My Prefix comes before all others, but why it does, I'm not sure.
My Infix hides those waiting to change their lives.
My Suffix is something made from a plant, without a different plant.
Hint 1:
The actual infix and the clue for the infix are spelled slightly different. The infix is usually only used on one single day.
Hint 2:
The prefix is a single letter.
Hint 3:
The infix can be linked with religion
Hint 4:
The first plant mentioned in the suffix clue tends to grow large, but the second plant grows small, and is used to make a drink.
Hint 5:
The "without" part of the suffix clue means that it is the first plant's word, with the letter(s) of the second plant removed.