I'm sitting in a bar browsing SE and then it happens,
a girl comes right through the door and my prefix just leaves my lips.
Sitting right next to me I already think about our future. I catch myself repeatedly saying my infix.
Can you feel the electricity in the air? I can't do the first step, why isn't she a suffix.
Anyway, meeting her could be a ? for my marriage.
Hint 1:
For the suffix: My surname is "hode" so my friends gave me a funny nickname.
It could be a
damnification
It fits the prefix description better, but obviously all credit goes to @hexomino and his answer :)
I'm not entirely sure about the prefix but my guess is
Meeting her could be a justification for my marriage.
a girl comes right through the door and my prefix just leaves my lips.
Just - I read this as "my prefix, just, leaves my lips",
Sitting right next to me I already think about our future. I catch myself repeatedly saying my infix.
If - which you would say a lot when considering the possibilities of the future.
Can you feel the electricity in the air? I can't do the first step, why isn't she a suffix.
Cation - I wouldn't have gotten this without the hint but your friends must call you "Cat" (Cat Hode) and so you are looking for your cation (attracted to the cathode).
I
As mentioned in the comments, the emboldening of the I indicates it comes between the infix and the suffix.
