A large language model like GPT can solve it systematically too. I know of two ways, one being based on using the LLM to help you with the programming details of the accepted solution using mathematical graphs discussed above. The discussion above left out some steps as an "exercise for the reader" like finding all the combinations of 4 choose 4, 4 choose 3, etc, and crossing out the disallowed states. This is where using GPT to write the python code to do all the work is helpful.
Drawing the graph is tricky too, and an additional helpful insight I can give you now is that the (M) appears and disappears in strictly alternating fashion in the solution, when you trace the graph execution from the starting node to the end node. This reflects the fact that the man must sail the boat to the opposite landmass to move any of the goods, resulting in all possible solutions showing that the man appears and disappears alternately from the left landmass. This insight helps eliminate lots of invalid possibilities, dramatically reducing the search space. I won't solve it with the LLM with graph math though right now, maybe later to demonstrate.
Instead I have solved this problem a whole different way by prompt engineering the LLM ChatGPT as follows in the link to openai.com
https://chat.openai.com/share/3534daf3-357e-4e09-9cac-ff2e86a84daf
Basically I told ChatGPT to create a voting group of 3 expert people and decide what to do stepwise. It works. I used ChatGPT4. I achieved success in ChatGPT4 first. It might also work in ChatGPT3.5 as well as API GPT3.5 (not chat) as because, like a Markov Chain, the state of the situation at the end of each step is all that matters. This way there is less burden on token memory size. I expect (unproven yet) that this design will let me call the API repeatedly until it reaches goal state. The way I solved it first, though, is one call to chatGPT4 which then keeps going, except for me telling it to continue a few times, all the way until it is solved.
I give you a copy of my prompt here. You can go look at the link above to see what happened next.
The problem: (Seashore has {fox,carrot,farmer,boat,goat}. Island has {}.) is the current state, which means that a farmer is standing on the seashore with his goat and carrot, and there is also a fox here, which wants to eat the goat. The farmer's presence prevents the goat from eating the carrot and the fox from eating the goat. If the farmer leaves the goat and the carrot together alone then the goat would eat the carrot. Similarly the fox would eat the goat if the farmer is not there with them. The farmer wants to sail the boat that is currently on the seashore, to take his goat and his carrot to the island, which is his final goal. The farmer's final goal is the state described by (Seashore has {fox}. Island has {goat,carrot}) and we do not care where the boat and farmer are at the final goal state, that is, the Island or Seashore are satisfactory locations for them at the final goal state. We need to find a way to achieve the final goal for the farmer. The farmer is the only one who can sail the boat. The boat is only big enough to hold up to 1 additional item, that is, fox, carrot, or goat, at the same time besides the farmer. The boat is the only way for an item to travel between seashore and island (no swimming, flying, etc).
The solution procedure: Let's think about this step by step, explaining our thinking as we go. We will always state exactly where the fox, carrot, goat, boat, and farmer are after every step is executed, either on the seashore or the island in the following format as an example: (Seashore has {fox,carrot}. Island has {farmer,boat,goat}.) Imagine we have three different experts who are collaboratively solving this problem. All experts will share with the other experts, their own preliminary plan for the next step only but they might have a sequence of steps to achieve the final goal secretly in mind however. Next, every expert will criticize or support the preliminary plan for the next step only of the other experts, but we will not yet actually execute the plan until after the vote. The three experts will vote to decide which expert's plan for next step to actually take: The plan with the majority vote will be agreed on by all as the actual step to be taken. After the vote is decided, the single chosen plan for the step will be executed, and after this one step's activities occur, we will state exactly where the fox, carrot, goat, boat and farmer are after the step is taken in the following format as an example: (Seashore has {fox}. Island has {carrot,farmer,boat,goat}.) If the state is not the goal state, then the stepwise cycle begins again, that is, each of the experts will formulate and announce their preliminary plan for one next step, criticize the other one-step plans, vote, collectively choose, execute a step, etc. Minimal commentary by the experts will be written during stepwise processing, limiting their words to the bare minimum needed to communicate each expert's preliminary plan, the criticism, the results of the collective vote, the step that is executed, and the outcome of the step in terms of the state of what items are now on the Island and the Seashore. The state must always indicate location of all five elements fox,carrot,goat,farmer,boat as being on Island or Seashore. Every expert must consider or review the state after a step, and look for problems to avoid and reconsider the plan, like goat and carrots being together without farmer present, or fox and goat without farmer. Keep in mind that for example when the farmer sails the boat to take the goat to the island, the farmer and the goat and the boat will resultingly appear in the Island state, such as State: (Seashore has {fox, carrot}. Island has {goat,farmer,boat}.) Note that the farmer and boat always move together, that is, appear together on either Island or Seashore, since the farmer cannot move without the boat, and the boat cannot move without the farmer. This means the following is an example of a disallowed state: (Seashore has {fox, carrot, farmer}. Island has {goat,boat}.)