due to last clue my guess is
Ember
Question clue (provided by Javy):
When someone touches a piece of Ember they would immediately lick the finger.
clue 1
its damn hot as its a small piece of burning or glowing coal or wood in a dying fire.
clue 2
glowing coal looks like meat but if a fly touches it they will die
clue 3
JavaScript framework Ember.js